No Strings Attached
“You don’t have to say you love me You don’t have to say nothing You don’t have to say you’re mine … You don’t have to say you love me I just wanna tell you…Continue Reading
Author: J
I am a pansexual, demisexual, greysexual, homoromantic, non-binary, transmasculine, genderfluid, solo-polyamorous relationship anarchist; as well as a plant-based Wiccan mama. I'm also neurodivergent, and overall identify as Queer.
I love writing, photography, dancing, travel, hiking, cooking, gaming, planning, and motherhood.
Debunking the Jealousy Myth
There’s a wide held belief amongst the monogamous community that polyamorous individuals (or other non-monogamous people) do not experience jealousy. This is why people often say things like “oh, I could never do that” when…Continue Reading
Part 10 – Best Resources (The “Our Story” Series)
*Part 10 of a 10 Part Series of articles showing the diversity and authenticity within the Polyamorous Community. Resources can be extremely helpful with self-growth and learning about different options and terms. They can also…Continue Reading
Loving Multiple Children
Perhaps you’ve heard the saying “If you can love multiple children then you can love multiple partners.” Or something along those lines. This is often an analogy used to explain to monogamous people how it…Continue Reading
Part 9 – Advice to Newcomers (The “Our Story” Series)
*Part 9 of a 10 Part Series of articles showing the diversity and authenticity within the Polyamorous Community. Advice is subjective. Everybody practices polyamory differently. Everyone has different preferences and different needs. However, whether you…Continue Reading
Part 8 – Funniest Moments (The “Our Story” Series)
*Part 8 of a 10 Part Series of articles showing the diversity and authenticity within the Polyamorous Community. You know that scene in Austin Powers when Dr. Evil tells Austin “We aren’t so different, you…Continue Reading
Part 7 – Happiest Moments (The “Our Story” Series)
*Part 7 of a 10 Part Series of articles showing the diversity and authenticity within the Polyamorous Community. Happy moments are what make life worth living – we all have at least a few. Of…Continue Reading
POrenting in a Nutshell (Polyamorous Parenting, Part 3)
Why is parenting so difficult? Well – for starters you can’t escape being a parent, it isn’t like any other kind of relationship where you can just disengage and separate yourself. If a child is…Continue Reading
The Roads of Communication + Connection
Every relationship you have is a 2-way street (and that goes for non-romantic relationships, as well). It’s a feedback loop. Your connection to your partner is based off of a communication feedback loop that is…Continue Reading
The Things You Can’t Change
Have you ever heard the phrase, “You can’t control other people’s actions, but you can control your reactions?” It’s said rather often. In fact, you may have read it somewhere on this website. I’m here…Continue Reading