I'm a mom to 5 wonderful children. I've been polyamorous most of my adulthood but didn't have the word for it until 5 years ago. I have also been a part of the BDSM lifestyle on and over for 20+ years now. I'm a recovering addict who has 17+ years clean and sober. I also suffer from a list of mental health issues that has made my life interesting to say the least.