Leaving Societal Norms Behind
My Beginning into BDSM My journey into BDSM began 20+ years ago. I first learned about the lifestyle from the guy I was dating at the time. There was a lot of trial and error…Continue Reading
I’ve been called a succubus many times in my life by men who think their pain is caused by me. Men who blame me for their own shortcomings. Manipulative men who love to guilt trip…Continue Reading
Dear Me, Now don’t freak out, yes this is you a mere 6 years in the future. I just want to help you get through one of the most rewarding but difficult times of your…Continue Reading
Communication My journey into better communication by Rosa Lugo The Human Condition Communication is the key to a happy, healthy relationship or friendship, mono or poly. It goes without saying, it’s easier said than…Continue Reading
Deciding what labels to use for your connections can be tiresome. Some labels seem sort of right, others seem completely wrong, maybe there are one or two you identify strongly with. Perhaps none are quite…Continue Reading
No matter how hard a person is working on self-growth, they are always quick to tell a friend or family member that ‘people can’t change’ or ‘people don’t change’ when there is a relationship in…Continue Reading
What Will I Get Out Of This? We’ve discussed The Challenges of transitioning from monogamous culture to polyamorous culture. If you haven’t read that article, you can find it here. It’s true there can…Continue Reading
What Am I Getting Myself Into? If you aren’t polyamorous from the get-go there can be a lot of changes in your lifestyle and your thinking when moving from monogamous culture to polyamorous culture.…Continue Reading
Now, let me stop you right there. I am not talking about sex. I am not talking about how I re-awoke to the wonders of how much I enjoy sex or anything of that kind.…Continue Reading
My day today has consisted of telling myself over and over again ‘I can’t cry until…’ Until I finish making breakfast. Until I’ve drop my son off at school. Until I’ve nursed my daughter to…Continue Reading
